BONUS Mini Series - Hero's Journey - 1006 - Allies + Helpers

The Unsung Heroes: Allies and Helpers in Life’s Big Adventure

There’s something magical about the moment you realize you’re not alone in your journey. Whether you’re scaling metaphorical mountains or navigating the labyrinth of daily life, an Ally can make all the difference. And no, I don’t mean someone who swoops in with dramatic fanfare like a caped superhero—though that would be awesome. I mean the quiet (or not so quiet), steady presence of a friend, a sidekick, or even a stranger who just happens to hand you the right tool (or advice) at the right time.

Recently, during a lively family discussion about the Hero’s Journey, we dove deep into the role of Allies and Helpers. My co-hosts— Ava and Andrew—had some fascinating insights that got me thinking: what makes someone an Ally, and how do they fit into our personal adventures?

Who Are Allies and Helpers, Really?

In storytelling, Allies are often the ones who join the hero’s quest. Think Ron and Hermione for Harry Potter, or the diverse skillsets in the Mission Impossible team. Unlike mentors, who are often older and wiser, Allies tend to be peers—friends who share the struggle, sometimes at great personal risk.

But Allies aren’t always obvious. Sometimes, they’re the kind-hearted shopkeeper who gives the hero a place to rest or the stranger who offers directions just when all seems lost. They don’t need to be front and center to have an impact.

Then there’s the twist: not all allies are as loyal as they seem. Andrew brought up a great example from Percy Jackson: Luke starts as an ally but later reveals himself as an adversary. What’s even trickier? He wasn’t entirely evil. His story is its own Hero’s Journey, complete with struggles and questionable choices.

What Does Help Look Like?


Help from Allies comes in many forms:

  • Taking Risks: Sometimes allies step in to face dangers on the hero’s behalf.
  • Fulfilling Roles: Like a well-oiled team, Allies can often bring complementary skills.
  • Offering Support: Even small gestures—like a hand on the shoulder or a knowing glance—can mean the difference between success and failure.
And then there’s the flip side: betrayal. One of the hardest lessons in any journey is learning to tell friend from foe. Sometimes, Allies start with the best intentions but falter along the way. Other times, they might betray the hero out of neglect or even envy.

The Web of Interconnected Journeys

Here’s a mind-bender: what if every Ally is living their own hero’s journey? Ava pointed out that Allies aren’t static sidekicks. They have their own challenges, battles, and decisions to make. Sometimes their paths align with the hero’s, and sometimes they don’t.

Picture this: a web of overlapping journeys, each with its own arcs and stakes. It’s a bit overwhelming, isn’t it? Yet it’s also a beautiful reminder that no one exists in isolation. Every interaction is part of a larger story.

Treating Allies Right

Here’s where the rubber meets the road. Are you being a good Ally in someone else’s journey? It’s easy to take helpers for granted, especially when you’re laser-focused on your own adventure. But neglecting those relationships can have consequences.

Andrew posed a challenge: identify an Ally in your life and show them gratitude. But don’t just say “thanks.” Frame it as part of your own Hero’s Journey. Something like, “When I was facing [challenge], you stepped in and [specific action]. It gave me the courage to keep going.”

It’s not just a feel-good exercise; it’s a way to strengthen bonds and acknowledge the interconnected nature of our stories.

Finding (and Keeping) Allies

So, how do you find Allies? Sometimes they appear when you least expect them, like in the chaos of a new challenge. Other times, you might need to actively seek them out. Mentors often help here, nudging you toward the people who can best support your journey.

But let’s not forget: being a good Ally works both ways. Whether you’re lending an ear, taking on a risk, or simply showing up, your actions ripple out into someone else’s story too.

Your Challenge

This week, take a moment to identify an Ally—past or present—and express your gratitude. Be specific. Frame your thank-you in the context of a Hero’s Journey.

And if you’re feeling bold, ask yourself: Am I showing up as the kind of Ally I’d want on my own adventure?

Life isn’t just a single-threaded tale; it’s a web of interconnected stories. And in this wild, messy, beautiful journey, Allies help us make the impossible possible. Let’s honor them.

Who’s been your Ron, Hermione, or gentle shopkeeper?

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About the Author

Angela is passionate about reshaping the way kids learn and grow. As the co-founder of Acton Academy Northwest Austin, Angela is dedicated to fostering a learner-driven environment where curiosity thrives and students take ownership of their educational journeys. When not working with young heroes, they’re often exploring big ideas on education, parenting, and lifelong learning right here on the blog.

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